July 22, 2011

Potty Training - Part II

Tools of the trade
 (I didn't notice my wine until after I took the picture -
I didn't see a need to retake!)
I've lost count on what day it is and am too lazy to look at a calendar. I'm exhausted. I love my son, but for all that is holy we need some time apart.  I blame toilet training - this kid has sucked down more juice than I care to admit.  All in the name of underwear. 

See, part of this 3 day potty training entails filling him with liquid - enough to make his eye balls float. I do want him to eat, so milk was kept at the breakfast, lunch and dinner intervals.  Water worked for the first day or so but then I had to bribe him with the J-word.  We rarely give A juice, I am even more convinced it won't happen after this week.  Yes we water it down, we even start with fairly low-sugar Coconut Juice, which he loves.  It's 7:45pm and he is hyped beyond belief and hasn't had a sip of juice since about 2:30.  Yikes! This has gone on all.week.long.

Okay enough of the downside. What's the up? Well - we have been in undies, as A likes to call them, all week.  Today we only had 1 accident and we were at the park, so while he said he had to go it was tough to get back home so quickly.  We've made small trips out of the house, to the park, the mall, in the car, to speech and back etc...he's been a champ.  He's a pro at going on a pubic toilet, after a scary first time (luckily it was at speech, where they have the pre-school size toilets). All he needed was the confidence to do it once and no he's fearless (as long as you're holding him, of course).  

I spoke with daycare today and we promised her a little extra green if she helped us out in this last month prior to preschool.  She seemed supportive so we look forward to Monday. Tomorrow is our first big adventure.  We have Teagan's 2nd birthday party in Golden Gate Park, so it will be a test of a longish (20 min) car ride and playing in the park.  Fingers crossed! 

Our "reward" chart
The bike is here.  We are debating when to give it to him. As you can see his poster is filling up! He likes to place like stickers on top of each other so you can't actually see but there are a lot on there - not following the road. If this was the Kentucky Derby of potty training all the stickers like to hang out in the infield. 

Bri's pumped to take it for a spin!
I only added this because our backyard looks great in the photo! HA HA

July 17, 2011

Potty Training - The first 2 days

So we're in the thick of it.  Bri and I are using a the "3-day potty training method" but I have taken the full week of work off, as the challenge of Anderson not being too vocal leads to mostly parent-led bathroom trips.  I want to get it down pat before I put him back in daycare, because to be honest, we're not going to get much support on that front.

How are we doing? Not too bad. We've gone through many pairs of underwear, as they get the tell-tale dampness before he figures out he has to go, but not once have I had to clean the floor up today, nor did we go through any sheets at naptime. Yesterday we went through two sets of sheets, and 1 pillow in efforts to nap without undies. Tonight is our first venture into bedtime without a diaper.  In fact Anderson has not seen a diaper since we took it off of him this morning.  

It exhausting - all we think about is pee and poop. I have to step back and remind myself how far we have come even since Friday as it's slow moving to the target.  On Friday Anderson would "pee" in his potty right before bedtime.  I say "pee" because it was more like a drop. Enough to get us excited and praise him but he did not empty his bladder at all.  Well we stopped praising him on the little ones and just kept placing him back on the potty even has he screamed in protest. It seems to have worked. Today he's filled the bowl each and every time - which is A LOT because part of this method is too fill your child with non-stop liquids.  This helps you able to catch him in the act as much as possible. Again, exhausting. However, we took a break last night and saw Harry Potter. It was our little reward.

Speaking of rewards, A really really wants a bike. So we got a piece of poster board, drew a terrible rendition of a road complete with a bike at the finish line and use this as his incentive.  We repeat no less than 50 times a day - pee pee and poop go in the potty. If Anderson does all of his pee and poo in the potty he gets a bike.  So each time we get a potty full of either A gets to place a sticker on the road.  The red balance bike is on order and arrives later this week.  I have a good feeling he might make it to the end of the road by Sunday. If not, the long term goal is the day after Labor Day. I'm not going to jump the gun earlier than necessary. It's an uphill challenge. I'm so proud of our little guy already.

July 5, 2011

Summer fun.

Good times caught on camera.
Splashing with Griffin



yum!
The watermelon photo is my new all time favorite. Love.